I was reading the advice column on Salon today, and while the question that Cary Tennis was addressing had nothing whatsoever to do with politics it struck me as an interesting way to look at the candidates and the way this whole process has been unfolding. I don't know if it is just me, paying more attention as I have grown older, or if the way elections play out has really been changing, but it does seem like there has been some sort of shift, from when I first voted for president in 1992.
Anyway, this is what Tennis said:
We are all more than one thing. We all desire more than we have. We all harbor desires that push against boundaries. We all have impulses that we cannot act on because of the consequences. The way to live a civilized, compassionate life is to remain alert to these things and thus grow wise about their nature.
Believe it or not, I have a tendency to be a bit of a cock-eyed optimist. I generally try to batter that in sarcasm and deep fry in in irony (I am a southerner). But apparently my crispy, crunchy outer coating sometimes flakes off. What are you gonna do?
But in having gotten called out recently for floating happy rhetoric with perhaps less substance than some of you desire behind it, Mr. Tennis' remarks somehow seemed fitting.
Somewhere inside, politicians are still people, just like you and me. And they are more than one thing, just like we are. I am southern, but that is not all that I am. I am a woman, but more than that. I am a writer, but that means different things to different people. The people running for president must want that position in a way that few of us can imagine. Just think about something that you have wanted more than anything and not been sure you were going to get—and I mean something big, not a flat screen tv. I know I have been in that position and it will drive you to do and think and feel things that you never thought you would. Desire is strange like that.
I don't really know what I am saying here, but it is just something that made me think. Maybe it will make you think too.